For many families, it is hard to hear that your child has been struggling in school. Some parents may already know or have a feeling their child is struggling. They have even received assessment results, only to feel worried about the negative stigma or sharing that information with their school. Today’s discussion is all about the importance of collaboration between parents, families, and educators.
Today’s guest is Shelley Lawrence and she comes to us with two decades worth of experience as a school administrator. In this episode, her experience shines and she shares her knowledge of how evaluations are used in schools, what to expect after an evaluation is completed, and she really drives home the need for developing a team. Feeling worried is absolutely a normal reaction, but communicating the needs of your child to schools and educators can make a world of difference in their educational progress.
[2:03] – Dr. Wilson shares how the parent/educator relationship is so important and why Shelley was her first choice to discuss the topic.
[4:36] – It’s not about a diagnosis. The purpose is to better understand why a child is struggling.
[6:24] – Shelley shares a story of a student she worked with and demonstrates how the teachers’ knowledge of weaknesses helped him.
[7:56] – Phrasing this information in a certain way can bolster student confidence.
[8:45] – Strengths and weaknesses are harder to determine in some students.
[9:56] – As an administrator, Shelley has found that many parents are worried about the negative stigma of having an IEP or 504 plan.
[11:40] – When an evaluation is recommended, Shelley explains that many parents are worried about going through with it. She shares how she describes it to parents.
[13:31] – It is normal to feel worried, but educators can rephrase the need for an evaluation.
[14:47] – Every family Dr. Wilson and Shelley have worked with do not regret the assessment process and getting their child the support they need.
[16:08] – Shelley describes her current position and role in education.
[17:29] – After completing an evaluation, it is important to break it down based on priorities.
[18:51] – Everyone needs to be working together, including the parents and teachers.
[20:43] – Some parents are also concerned about making more work for teachers, but teachers want and need to know how to help their students.
[22:20] – What should parents expect from the school after an evaluation?
[23:40] – These meetings are important to getting everyone on the same page. From the educator’s point of view, it is so helpful and fulfilling.
[25:01] – Look beyond the IEP goals. Parent and teacher observation are markers of progress as well.
[27:50] – Sometimes progress is very slow. Different interventions can be implemented.
[29:20] – The point is to make sure the child is learning rather than spinning their wheels.
[30:43] – Attention struggles impact academics drastically.
[32:20] – Emphasizing that it is a team that helps the child can make things more impactful for parents and educators.
About Our Guest:
As an Independent School administrator for two decades, Shelley Lawrence had the unique experience of working with families of students who were striving to succeed in school. She is adamant in her belief that, with the proper supports in place, all children can succeed in school. Shelley brings her passion for children, her strong connections with outside providers in the community, her keen observation and listening skills and her understanding of the complexities of learning, to help families navigate the school journey with their child. In addition, Shelley is a trained advocate who can help families navigate the IEP process.
Connect with Shelley Lawrence:
- ChildNEXUS Provider Profile: Shelley Lawrence
- Schoolhouse Collaborative Website
- Phone: (310) 251-5908
Links and Related Resources:
- Episode 4: Helping Your Child with Language Based Learning Disabilities with Dr. Daniel Franklin
- Episode 27: Why We Need to Support Parents Whose Kids Struggle with Learning with Maria Fagan Hassani
- Parenting During Stressful Times AKA Covid-19 Pandemic
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The Diverse Thinking Different Learning podcast is intended for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical or legal advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed by the host and guests are not considered treatment and do not necessarily reflect those of ChildNEXUS, Inc or the host, Dr. Karen Wilson.